- When did you first realize you were gay?
I started to suspect when I was around 12 or 13, but I fully accepted it when I was about 16.
- How did you come out, and what was the reaction?
I came out to my best friend first, and she was super supportive. My family took some time, but they love me unconditionally.
- Who is your biggest LGBTQ+ role model?
Probably RuPaul—his confidence and ability to create space for others is so inspiring.
- What’s your ideal type in a partner?
Someone funny, kind, emotionally intelligent, and with a great sense of style doesn’t hurt!
- How do you feel about representation in media today?
It’s getting better, but we still need more authentic and diverse LGBTQ+ stories beyond stereotypes.
- What’s a common misconception people have about being gay?
That all gay guys act the same or fit a certain mold—everyone is unique.
- Do you think the dating scene is easier or harder for LGBTQ+ people?
It can be both. Dating apps help, but finding genuine connections can be tough, especially with limited options in some places.
- What’s your dream vacation destination?
Greece—the islands, the beaches, and the culture all seem amazing.
- What’s one thing you wish straight people understood better about the LGBTQ+ experience?
That coming out isn’t just one big moment—it’s something we have to do constantly in different situations.
- What advice would you give to someone struggling with their sexuality?
Take your time, don’t feel pressured to label yourself, and find people who support and love you for who you are.
The thing that Rodger wants people to take away is that being gay isn’t a big deal but it is a big deal Meaning its a big deal to you personally but it shouldn’t be a big deal to anyone else.
